
A Mental Health Moment
By Bernadette Joy Graham, MA, LPCC, LLC
The Truth Contributor
September marks Suicide Prevention Awareness Month, a time to reflect on the serious issue of mental health, raise awareness, and offer support to those struggling in silence. Within Black communities, this topic is especially important, as we face unique challenges that often go unaddressed, challenges that can impact mental well-being and increase the risk of suicide. It’s crucial to understand the signs and offer support, because no one should have to fight their battles alone.
Understanding the Struggles in the Black Community
For many in the Black community, mental health struggles are often minimized or ignored due to cultural stigma and a lack of open dialogue. Societal pressures, systemic racism, and financial insecurity can amplify stress and feelings of hopelessness. Traditional beliefs and the value placed on “strength” can make it difficult to ask for help. Yet, these factors, combined with historical trauma, can lead to severe mental health crises, including thoughts of suicide.
Recognizing the Symptoms of Suicide Risk
Suicide can be a result of ongoing mental health struggles, but the warning signs can often go unnoticed. It’s essential to recognize these indicators early so that we can intervene before it’s too late. Some common signs of suicide risk include:
- Withdrawal from Social Connections: Some may isolate themselves from family and friends, avoid social gatherings, and display an overall lack of interest in activities they once enjoyed.
- Mood Swings or Extreme Changes in Behavior: A person who is typically positive may become depressed, irritable or angry. He or she may exhibit sudden behavior changes that are out of character.
- Talking About Death or Suicide: If someone talks about feeling hopeless, having no reason to live, or saying he wishes he was dead, this should never be brushed off as just a phase. It’s a serious sign.
- Physical Symptoms of Stress: Unexplained aches, fatigue, trouble sleeping or changes in appetite can be symptoms of deeper emotional pain.
- Increased Substance Use: Turning to alcohol, drugs or other substances to cope can be a sign of trying to numb overwhelming feelings of distress.
- Giving Away Personal Belongings: This can be a subtle but clear sign that someone may be planning for her absence.
How We Can Help
As a community, we need to create spaces where mental health is openly discussed and not stigmatized. The first step is listening. If someone shares his feelings with you, take it seriously and encourage him to seek help. Offer your support by connecting him with mental health resources or a trusted counselor.
In addition to individual efforts, we can support local organizations and programs that specialize in mental health and suicide prevention. The National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (1-800-273-8255) and the Crisis Text Line (Text HOME to 741741) are both accessible resources.
Lastly, one of the most important things we can do is remove the shame and stigma around mental health care in our community. By being open, supportive and understanding, we can save lives and ensure that everyone feels valued and heard.
Remember: You Are Not Alone
Take a mental health moment to accept it’s okay to not be okay. Suicide Prevention Awareness Month serves as a reminder that there’s help, hope and healing. Whether it’s you or someone you care about, reaching out for support can be the first step toward recovery. Our community is stronger when we uplift one another.
If you or someone you love needs immediate mental health support, call or text 988 to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. To find a Black therapist, visit: www.therapyforblackgirls.com, www.therapyforblackmen.org, www.psychologytoday.com or www.inclusivetherapists.com
