{"id":17702,"date":"2025-11-06T16:46:23","date_gmt":"2025-11-06T16:46:23","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/?p=17702"},"modified":"2025-11-06T16:52:15","modified_gmt":"2025-11-06T16:52:15","slug":"healing-in-uniform-a-black-woman-veterans-call-to-prioritize-mental-health","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/index.php\/2025\/11\/06\/healing-in-uniform-a-black-woman-veterans-call-to-prioritize-mental-health\/","title":{"rendered":"Healing in Uniform: A Black Woman Veteran\u2019s Call to Prioritize Mental Health"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Bernadette Joy Graham, MA, LPCC, LLC<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

A Mental Health Moment<\/strong><\/p>\n

By Bernadette Joy Graham, MA, LPCC<\/em>
\nLicensed Clinical Mental Health Therapist<\/em><\/p>\n

When I raised my right hand and swore to serve my country, I knew I was stepping into a world that would challenge me physically, mentally and emotionally. What I didn\u2019t know was how deeply those challenges would linger long after I hung up my uniform.<\/p>\n

As a Black woman veteran, I\u2019ve carried not just the weight of military service, but the layered reality of navigating that service through the lens of race, gender, and identity. Mental health, for many of us, isn\u2019t just about coping with trauma \u2014 it\u2019s about surviving in systems that weren\u2019t built with us in mind.<\/p>\n

The Unseen Battle<\/h4>\n

Every November, the nation celebrates Veterans Day. We see parades, flag ceremonies and patriotic commercials \u2014 but too often, we don\u2019t talk about the unseen wounds veterans carry. Post-traumatic stress, anxiety, depression and survivor\u2019s guilt are common among those who have served. Yet, for Black veterans \u2014 especially women \u2014 these struggles are often compounded by cultural stigma, mistrust in healthcare systems and a lack of culturally competent care.<\/p>\n

According to the Department of Veterans Affairs, Black veterans are less likely to seek mental health treatment, and when they do, they\u2019re less likely to receive care that addresses the unique intersection of their racial and military experiences.<\/p>\n

Breaking the Silence<\/h4>\n

In our communities, we\u2019re taught to be strong \u2014 to pray about it, push through it and handle our business. But silence has never been a cure. Strength doesn\u2019t mean ignoring pain; it means facing it with courage and seeking help when we need it.<\/p>\n

I remember my own hesitation to reach out for therapy. I thought, \u201cI\u2019ve survived worse \u2014 I can handle this.\u201d But carrying unhealed trauma only made the load heavier. It wasn\u2019t until I connected with a counselor who understood my background that I began to truly heal.<\/p>\n

Reclaiming Our Healing<\/h4>\n

Healing for Black veterans must include spaces that affirm who we are. That means more Black therapists and counselors in the VA system, more community-based programs led by people who understand our culture, and more open conversations in our churches, barber shops, and family gatherings about mental health.<\/p>\n

We also need to look out for one another. Check in on your battle buddies. Encourage therapy and peer support groups. Let\u2019s remind each other that it\u2019s okay not to be okay \u2014 and that seeking help is an act of strength, not weakness.<\/p>\n

Moving Forward<\/h4>\n

To my fellow veterans \u2014 especially my sisters in arms \u2014 I see you. I know the battles you fight, both seen and unseen. You\u2019ve given so much to your country; now it\u2019s time to give yourself permission to heal.<\/p>\n

Our stories matter. Our healing matters. And together, we can break the silence that has kept too many of us suffering in isolation.<\/p>\n

Take a mental health moment, regardless, if you are a civilian who has never served or a veteran, November 11th<\/sup>, is one day of the year to celebrate freedom by those who stepped up to defend our country.\u00a0 Freedom has never been and never will be free.\u00a0 It acts and unknown fates of those who are willing to put their lives on the line for those who are unwilling or unable to serve to ensure freedom rings.<\/p>\n

To my fellow veterans, don\u2019t give up, don\u2019t give in and while your trauma range may be from 1- hell, hang in there, we all raised our hand, not knowing the future of our time in service; remember the courage, the comradery, the good times and bad but we are all together and must come together to encourage growth and healing.\u00a0 Freedom is not free, not for you, not for me, not for the soldiers still on battle fields as relentless politics have always taken spree. \u00a0I am a proud black woman veteran who served our country.\u00a0 While the past experiences of serving have caused me pause, looking back, I would still proudly serve as a woman of color. While the uniforms may be now hung or boxed away, mental health is a priority to healing and advocating for necessary changes to ensure the well-being of all veterans.<\/p>\n

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