{"id":3070,"date":"2021-11-04T15:01:53","date_gmt":"2021-11-04T15:01:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/?p=3070"},"modified":"2021-11-04T15:01:53","modified_gmt":"2021-11-04T15:01:53","slug":"mental-health-90-day-challenge-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/index.php\/2021\/11\/04\/mental-health-90-day-challenge-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Mental Health 90-Day Challenge (Part 2)"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_1053\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1053\" style=\"width: 200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1053\" src=\"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Bernadette-Joy-Graham.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"318\" srcset=\"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Bernadette-Joy-Graham.jpg 200w, http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Bernadette-Joy-Graham-189x300.jpg 189w, http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/Bernadette-Joy-Graham-157x250.jpg 157w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1053\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bernadette Joy Graham,<br \/>MA, LPC, NCC,<br \/>Licensed Mental Health Therapist<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>A Mental Health Moment<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>By Bernadette Joy Graham, MA, LPC, NCC, CCHt, Licensed Mental Health Therapist<br \/>\n<\/em><\/strong><strong><em>The Truth Contributor<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Happy November dear readers!\u00a0 Last month I wrote about readers taking a mental health 90-day challenge raising questions and concerns on how to get started with your own mental health.<\/p>\n<p>We now have roughly 60 days until 2021 comes to a close but in the midst of those days comes issues with holiday blues that can weigh heavily on one\u2019s emotions, thoughts and actions that can adversely affect our mental health.\u00a0 For example, many of us have lost loved one\u2019s over the past year or years of many and the holidays often bring about memories shared with those we\u2019ve lost.<\/p>\n<p>If you had the opportunity and interest to begin this challenge, I commend you greatly for taking care of yourself.\u00a0 Some noted steps were to begin the conversation with yourself such as \u201chow do I feel, am I angry, anxious, hopeless, or even depressed?\u201d\u00a0 Followed by how to begin to address those issues by seeking professional help or at least reaching out to a trusted friend, family member or colleague.<\/p>\n<p>Healthcare, and lack thereof, features a huge disparity as well as having the ability to share your weaknesses.\u00a0 Open enrollment is still ongoing if you do not have health insurance through an employer. Jobs and family services is a great start in obtaining insurance.<\/p>\n<p>If you have not started this challenge, I greatly encourage you to take a first step.\u00a0 That first step is to acknowledge that your mental health is an immense part of your overall health.\u00a0 You can be fit, in shape and have optimal physical well-being but if you lack the ability to regulate your emotions, appropriately function in social, work and relationship areas, running five miles a day will not fix those issues.<\/p>\n<p>A few tips for the month of November and this on-going challenge.\u00a0 Veterans day is November 11, while to some it\u2019s just another day, but my fellow veterans take it a bit more serious due to their service experience.\u00a0 If you are a veteran or have a family member who is a veteran and find this time to be a trigger that can exaggerate feelings and emotions of self-harm or harm to others reach out to the veteran\u2019s crisis line (800-273-8255) or text (838255) or link up with the Toledo Outpatient clinic (419-259-2000)\u00a0 The clinic is located at 1200 S Detroit Ave in Toledo, lastly the Lucas County Veterans Services can be reached at 419-213-6090 and can assist with many needs as housing, food, legal, burial and benefits.<\/p>\n<p>Thanksgiving Day this year is Thursday November 25.\u00a0 Most of us look forward to spending time with our families and friends and of course great meals but can be very difficult to celebrate if family members are no longer with us. Memories can be wonderful when the experience was wonderful.\u00a0 Life is ever changing as can be our memories.<\/p>\n<p>If you are unable to continue a tradition of this celebrated holiday as in the past, create new traditions.\u00a0 This will create new memories yet allow you to always appreciate the past.\u00a0 We all know change can be excruciating and even anxiety provoking but unfortunately life will not stop for any of us.\u00a0 Change will happen whether we want it to or not but we all have the ability to create the change we prefer to the best of our ability.<\/p>\n<p>A challenge is meant to prove to ourselves that we can do something different.\u00a0 The outcome of that challenge is up to us.\u00a0 Be well, be healthy and be honest with yourself. Get your mind right and start by challenging yourself to becoming the best you closing out 2021.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Note:\u00a0 If you are interested in participating in a grief group, please contact me as there are limited spaces.\u00a0 This is a 6-week action- based group for adults to learn how to grieve and process the difficulties faced with a loss.\u00a0 \u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Bernadette Graham is a Licensed Professional Mental Health Counselor, National Certified Counselor and Certified Grief Recovery Specialist. She is also a Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist. Provide feedback or reach out at graham.bernadette@gmail.com\u00a0 For appointment information please call 419.409.4929 \u00a0(Appointments available on Tuesdays and Fridays only). Office location is 3454 Oak Alley Ct. Suite 300 Toledo, OH 43606 www.bjgrahamcounseling.org\u00a0 Available for team building, employee empowerment in motivation and better understanding mental health in the work place.\u00a0 Accepting new clients ages 13 nd older.\u00a0<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"E6DMR9OfxY\"><p><a href=\"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/index.php\/2021\/10\/07\/mental-health-90-day-challenge\/\">Mental Health 90-Day Challenge!<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\" sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" style=\"position: absolute; clip: rect(1px, 1px, 1px, 1px);\" title=\"&#8220;Mental Health 90-Day Challenge!&#8221; &#8212; The Sojourner&#039;s Truth\" src=\"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/index.php\/2021\/10\/07\/mental-health-90-day-challenge\/embed\/#?secret=4fX7D1tttF#?secret=E6DMR9OfxY\" data-secret=\"E6DMR9OfxY\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A Mental Health Moment By Bernadette Joy Graham, MA, LPC, NCC, CCHt, Licensed Mental Health Therapist The Truth Contributor Happy November dear readers!\u00a0 Last month I wrote about readers taking a mental health 90-day challenge raising questions and concerns on how to get started with your own mental health. 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