{"id":13623,"date":"2024-09-19T22:05:40","date_gmt":"2024-09-19T22:05:40","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/?p=13623"},"modified":"2024-09-19T22:05:40","modified_gmt":"2024-09-19T22:05:40","slug":"rage-on-being-queer-black-brilliant-and-completely-over-it-by-lester-fabian-brathwaite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/wordpress.thetruthtoledo.com\/index.php\/2024\/09\/19\/rage-on-being-queer-black-brilliant-and-completely-over-it-by-lester-fabian-brathwaite\/","title":{"rendered":"Rage: On Being Queer, Black, Brilliant&#8230; and Completely Over It by Lester Fabian Brathwaite"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>c.2024, Tiny Reparations Books\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>$28.00\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>288 pages<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p><em><strong>By Terri Schlichenmeyer<\/strong><\/em><br \/>\n<em><strong>The Truth Contributer<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Somewhere up in the clouds.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s where your blood pressure is, right there as high as it&#8217;s ever been. Hoo, boy, are you angry. Your teeth are clenched, your eyes are slits, and you can&#8217;t trust yourself to speak in more than a growl. You&#8217;re plenty steamed and, as in the new book<strong> <em>Rage<\/em> by Lester Fabian Brathwaite,<\/strong> it shouldn&#8217;t have to be this way.<\/p>\n<p>When he came with his family to America from Guyana at just four years old, Brathwaite couldn&#8217;t believe what his new home country offered. Malls, new kinds of food, cable television?\u00a0 Shirtless white men on TV and in magazines? Yes, please!<\/p>\n<p>He&#8217;s always had crushes on white men, but he loves being a gay Black man \u2013 even though racism, overt and subtle, can be an aggravation. When Brathwaite is on a dating app, white men sometimes dismiss him with a racial comment. He&#8217;s heard and seen the &#8220;n-word&#8221; more than once and he doesn&#8217;t tolerate it.\u00a0 Wouldn&#8217;t a greeting and a <em>no thanks<\/em> be less rude?<\/p>\n<p>He is bothered by unnecessary meanness.<\/p>\n<p>He is bothered in a different way by bodybuilding. Hot, muscular bodies, to be exact and he&#8217;s sure that whoever created the sport was a genius. Brathwaite participates in bodybuilding himself sometimes \u2013 it&#8217;s expensive and he does it for himself, not for other men \u2013 though he believes that gay men are bodybuilding&#8217;s biggest subset. For sure, he&#8217;s paid homage to his share of bodybuilders, superheroes in movies and hot shirtless boys on TV.<\/p>\n<p>There were many times, years ago, that Brathwaite ended up drunk and in a stranger&#8217;s bed or looking for an old hook-up, and he was arrested once. Nearing 30, though, he realized that that life wasn&#8217;t what he wanted any more. His knees couldn&#8217;t take it. Besides, he liked who he was and he liked his blackness. He realized that he didn&#8217;t need anyone else to be a hero of his tale. He could do it better himself.<\/p>\n<p>One thing&#8217;s for certain: <em>Rage<\/em> lives up to its title.<\/p>\n<p>At times, author Lester Fabian Brathwaite rails against so many things: racism and desire, club society, being a writer and editor, the generational differences between gay men, politics and loss. At other times, he&#8217;s outRAGEous and hilarious, writing to readers as though he&#8217;s holding court in a cafe somewhere and you&#8217;d better listen up.<\/p>\n<p>You should know that that means honesty \u2013 poking in the corners, calling things out for what they are, chastising people who need schooling on how to behave in a way that doesn&#8217;t leave room for nonsense. This arrives unabashed and raw, accompanied by plenty of profanity.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve been warned.<\/p>\n<p>And yet, Brathwaite&#8217;s candor and his blunt talk is fresh and different. This gay man doesn&#8217;t pussy-foot around, and getting his opinions without fluff feels good and right. Readers will appreciate that, and they might come away educated.<\/p>\n<p>Generally speaking, this ain&#8217;t your Grandma&#8217;s book, unless Grandma likes real talk laced with profanity. If that&#8217;s so, then get <em>Rage<\/em>. You&#8217;ll both be mad for it.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>c.2024, Tiny Reparations Books\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 $28.00\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 288 pages By Terri Schlichenmeyer The Truth Contributer Somewhere up in the clouds. That&#8217;s where your blood pressure is, right there as high as it&#8217;s ever been. 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